So the real problem here, as I see it, is the -3 and 4 loyalty based on faction. This should start at -3, go down to 0 within about a year of gameplay, and up to +3 after another year, OR you have the option to slaughter those disloyal to bring it up (but hurt prosperity and notable favor). -4 is just way too much.
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